The Difference Between a Calling and a Coincidence

Parashat Vayikra

Most moments in life don’t feel meaningful when they happen.

They feel ordinary. Incidental. Easy to dismiss.

A conversation. An opportunity. A challenge. A small decision that doesn’t seem like it matters very much.

It’s only later that we sometimes realize how much was actually at stake.

The opening word of this week’s parsha is Vayikra — “And He called.”

But in the Torah scroll, the final letter — the aleph — is written small.

Without it, the word would read Vayikar — “it happened,” “a coincidence.”

The difference between a calling and a coincidence is almost invisible.

The Torah is hinting at something subtle but powerful:

Not everything in life arrives with clarity. Not every moment announces itself as important. Much of life shows up quietly — and can easily be experienced as random.

The difference between a calling and a coincidence is almost invisible — but it changes everything.

The question is not only what happens to us.

It’s how we relate to what happens.

Two people can live through the same moment.

One brushes it off. The other pauses, pays attention, and asks: What is being asked of me here?

That shift — from seeing life as a series of coincidences to experiencing it as a series of calls — changes everything.

It shapes how we respond.

How we grow.

And ultimately, the kind of life we build.

As Shabbat approaches, may we slow down enough to notice the moments that matter — and find the clarity to respond to them with intention.

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Rabbi Shmulik Yeshayahu
Rabbi Shmuel Yeshayahu was born in Israel and received his rabbinic ordination from the Rabbinate of Israel. He is a Rabbi in Vancouver, BC. Since 2000 he has been providing mentoring, counseling, religious services, classes, and tutorials, as well as developing and leading Jewish programming for unaffiliated young adults. He is well known for his ability to make spirituality relevant to all people in all walks of life. You can follow him on Facebook @RabbiShmulikYeshayahu. Rabbi Shmuel Yeshayahu is the co-author of An MBA from Heaven.
Picture of Rabbi Shmulik Yeshayahu
Rabbi Shmulik Yeshayahu
Rabbi Shmuel Yeshayahu was born in Israel and received his rabbinic ordination from the Rabbinate of Israel. He is a Rabbi in Vancouver, BC. Since 2000 he has been providing mentoring, counseling, religious services, classes, and tutorials, as well as developing and leading Jewish programming for unaffiliated young adults. He is well known for his ability to make spirituality relevant to all people in all walks of life. You can follow him on Facebook @RabbiShmulikYeshayahu. Rabbi Shmuel Yeshayahu is the co-author of An MBA from Heaven.

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