Parshat Chukat-Balak
One of the greatest misunderstandings about love is that we measure it by how much it gives.
More freedom.
More comfort.
More approval.
More yes.
The Torah offers a different definition.
In this week’s parsha, Bilaam asks God for permission to curse the Jewish people.
God’s answer is simple:
No.
Sometimes the most loving answer isn’t the one we hope to hear.
Love is not defined by what it gives.
Love is not defined by what it gives.
It’s defined by what it helps become.
It’s defined by what it helps become.
Sometimes love says yes.
Sometimes love says no.
Sometimes it comforts.
Sometimes it challenges.
Not because love changes,
but because real love is always seeking what is best.
Real love requires discernment.
The ability to see beyond the moment.
The courage to act accordingly.
As Shabbat approaches, may we be blessed with the discernment to love wisely, the courage to do what love requires, and the strength to grow into people whose love helps others flourish.
Shabbat Shalom!
